Climbing Out of the Pit, Part 3

23 01 2009

By: Mary Southerland (my answers below -scroll down to very bottom)

Today’s Truth
“I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.  He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear and put their trust in the LORD.” Psalm 40:2-3 (NIV)

Friend To Friend
At some point in life, we all will find ourselves in some kind of pit, the darkness settling around us like a paralyzing blanket of hopelessness.  That deep, dark pit may have many names, but easily becomes a prison from which escape seems impossible.  The journey out is a process of steps uniquely planned by your Father.  He is the Guide for this step-by-step journey.

Step One:      Wait for God.
Step Two:      Cry out for help.
Step Three:   Count on God.

In this world, there are few certainties.  God is one.  His promises are true and we can wholly trust Him to keep His Word, to do exactly what He promises to do.  In the key passage today, we find an impressive set of promises.  God promises to free us — direct us — restore us — give us joy and invites us to join Him in Kingdom work.  Wow!  That is quite an impressive “to do list” when you are sitting at the bottom of an ugly pit, with the shattered pieces of your life scattered around you.  But God’s ways are not our ways.

In Romans 11:33, Paul writes “Oh, what a wonderful God we have! How great are his riches, wisdom, and knowledge. How impossible it is for us to understand his decisions and his methods.” (NIV)

God is drawn to brokenness.  What an amazing truth, that He turns first to the broken.  Psalm 40:1 says “He turned to me.”  Notice it does not say that David, the author, turned to God.  I don’t think that David could turn to God!  Knowing the desire of David’s heart and understanding his weakness, God heard his cry and turned to David just like God will hear your cry and turn to you!

During the darkest hours, I questioned God continually.  I flung my anger at Him like a spear.  My heart and soul were filled with fear and confusion instead of faith and trust.  Yet, He never turned away from me.  He knew every tear that I cried.  Out of those tears and brokenness has come the most effective and powerful chapter of my life!  I am convinced that the more we are broken, the more we are used.  You can count on God.  You can credit His grace to your account!

Mercy is when we don’t get what we deserve.

Justice is when we get what we do deserve.

Grace is when we get what we do not deserve.

We are trophies of God’s grace and we can count on Him.

Step Four:  Be patient.

Psalm 40:1 “I waited patiently for the Lord.”

In this verse, “patiently” literally means “without tiring” or “with perseverance”.  Be patient with yourself.  Don’t give up on you.  No one gets depressed overnight and no one conquers depression overnight.  It is a marathon, not a fifty yard dash!  On my journey, it took 45 years to hit rock bottom.  It has taken me four years to climb out … this far.  I am still climbing!  We must be patient.  We must be willing to persevere.  Don’t give up!  Just give in and allow God to take control.  He will turn that pit into an altar on which your broken spirit can be laid as a sweet sacrifice of praise.

Step Five:  Don’t give up.

Philippians 1:6  “And I am sure that God who began the good work within you will keep right on helping you grow in his grace until his task within you is finally finished on that day when Jesus Christ returns.”

God is at work!  The very fact that you are reading this devotion is proof that the Father has ordered your steps so that you can hear my story.  That may be because you are in a pit and you need help or maybe because someone you love is in that pit and you need to help them.  God wants you to experience restoration and then to be a vessel of restoration for others.

Years ago, in a large southeastern city, the great pianist, Paderewski, was scheduled to perform.  The city was alive with excitement and the day finally came.  In the crowd at the concert was a young mother clutching the hand of her small son.  Hoping to inspire him to practice, she had brought him to hear the master perform.  As they sat and waited for the concert to begin, she turned her head to look at the people as they filled the auditorium. The little boy saw his chance to escape.  He quietly slipped from his seat, walking down the aisle toward the stage.  Just as he reached the orchestra pit, a spotlight hit the grand piano and he gasped at the beauty of the instrument.  No one noticed the little boy as he slipped up the side stairs to the stage and climbed up on the piano stool.  No one noticed him at all, until he began to play “Chopsticks”.  The concert hall fell silent.  Then people began to shout.  “Get him away from that piano!” Backstage, the Master heard the crowd and grabbing his coat, rushed to the little boy’s side.  Without a word, he bent down and, placing his hands on either side of the boy’s, began to compose a beautiful counter melody to “Chopsticks”.  As they played together, he whispered in the little boy’s ear, “Don’t stop! Keep on!  Don’t quit!”

Right now, right where you are, understand that your Father is standing beside you, with His arms wrapped around you.  Listen as He gently speaks, “Don’t stop!  Keep on!  Don’t quit!”

I know that the music of your darkened soul may be filled with chaos and dissonance, but even now, the Master is composing the “rest” of your song.  One day very soon, it will be a song of beauty and light! One day, you will come out of the dark!

Let’s Pray
Oh God, right now I choose to wait on You, crying out for Your hand of mercy and love to deliver me from this pit of darkness.  I abandon myself to You and am counting on You to be my Redeemer and Friend.  Give me the courage to share my pain with others and ask for help.  Now, in the presence of my enemies of darkness and depression, I celebrate the victory.  Thank you, Father!

In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

Now It’s Your Turn
Memorize Psalm 40:1-3.  Accept these promises as a gift from God for every pit — past, present and future — in your life.  Ask yourself the following questions:

·         What is the first step you should take in order to climb out of this pit? Realize that I’m in a pit and it’s most likely my ego that put me there. Realize that I need help from God and to be honest with myself and with others, and actively seek reconciliation.

·         What do you need to leave behind or step over in order to take this first step?  I need to leave behind my ego and thinking I’m always right, in order to try to see things from someone else’s perspective.

*  What does it mean when it says that God is your lamp?  How does that change your perspective of life? In Proverbs it says His Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path. This means He will show me the way, step by step, where I must go.

* Examine the deepest desires of your heart.  Do you really want to escape this pit of darkness?  Does the freedom frighten you?  Why?
Yes, I want to escape. The freedom in a way can be frightening because it’s a change. I’d have to get our of my comfort zone and learn not to hide things, but be open, honest and learn to truly love. If we hide things, I believe that’s not out of love, but out of fear. But I will overcome this and chase after God’s will and freedom He wants for me.





Developing an Honest Character

21 11 2008

Psalm 120:2,
2 Save me, O LORD, from lying lips
and from deceitful tongues.

Psalm 144:11,
11 Deliver me and rescue me
from the hands of foreigners
whose mouths are full of lies,
whose right hands are deceitful.

Ephesians 4:25,
25Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body.

Psalm 17:1,
A prayer of David.
1 Hear, O LORD, my righteous plea;
listen to my cry.
Give ear to my prayer—
it does not rise from deceitful lips.

Proverbs 4:24
24 Put away perversity from your mouth;
keep corrupt talk far from your lips.

1. To “put away perversity from your mouth,” and to “keep corrupt talk far from your lips” means that our mouths should speak words that bless, that are honest and pure…even if we think the other person won’t enjoy hearing it. We can be diplomatic and edifying while still speaking the truth.
2. To build a habit of speaking honestly, I must trust in the Lord that if I choose to obey Him and honor Him with my mouth, that even if the thing I speak may get in me in trouble, that if I pray to God that He is God and can do all things and will bless me and reward me for speaking the truth and not lies.





Blessing of an Honest Person-2

20 11 2008

Psalm 24:3-5,
3 Who may ascend the hill of the LORD ?
Who may stand in his holy place?

4 He who has clean hands and a pure heart,
who does not lift up his soul to an idol
or swear by what is false. [a]

5 He will receive blessing from the LORD
and vindication from God his Savior.

Proverbs 15:8,
8 The LORD detests the sacrifice of the wicked,
but the prayer of the upright pleases him.

Proverbs 16:13
13 Kings take pleasure in honest lips;
they value a man who speaks the truth.

I want to have clean hands and a pure heart and not worship idols or ever tell lies. Psalm 24:5 says this is the key having the Lord’s blessing and the key to having a right relationship with God. This is so important to me because having a right relationship with God impacts every aspect of my life. I want to be right before the Lord. It also says that when I have righteous (honest) lips, God loves it. So I want to guard my mouth and words today so God will delight in my prayers. If I act wickedly God detests it. So therefore I want to live in righteousness so I can delight in Him and my God in me. :)





Lying- Cause and Effects-1

19 11 2008

John 8:44,
44You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father’s desire. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies.

James 3:14-16,
14But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. 15Such “wisdom” does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, of the devil. 16For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.

2 Timothy 3:1-2
Godlessness in the Last Days
1But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. 2People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy,

1. The one behind the sin of lying is the devil.
2. Jealousy, arrogance and egoism causes people to act in a way or say things that aren’t according to the truth of reality because they aren’t satisfied with reality or they’re afraid they’ll get in trouble.





Characteristics of Honest People and of Liars

18 11 2008

Proverbs 16:17, 21:8, 14:2, 5, 7
17 The highway of the upright avoids evil;
he who guards his way guards his life.
8 The way of the guilty is devious,
but the conduct of the innocent is upright.
2 He whose walk is upright fears the LORD,
but he whose ways are devious despises him.
5 A truthful witness does not deceive,
but a false witness pours out lies.
7 Stay away from a foolish man,
for you will not find knowledge on his lips.

Psalm 119:128
128 and because I consider all your precepts right,
I hate every wrong path.

1 John 4:20
20If anyone says, “I love God,” yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen.

Proverbs 26:28
28 A lying tongue hates those it hurts,
and a flattering mouth works ruin.

1. Characteristics of people who like to lie is that they do not fear God and walk a crooked path. Because they are in the wrong path, they are not safe. Also a “lying tongue hates its victims (Prov 26:28).”

2. The characteristics of honest people is that they are virtuous; they fear the Lord and those who take the wrong path despise him, but they are on a safe path and straight road





Honesty is God’s Commandment

17 11 2008

Leviticus 11:12,
12 Anything living in the water that does not have fins and scales is to be detestable to you.

Deuteronomy 5:20,
20 “You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor

Exodus 23:1,
Laws of Justice and Mercy
1 “Do not spread false reports. Do not help a wicked man by being a malicious witness.

Leviticus 19:11,
11 ” ‘Do not steal.
” ‘Do not lie.
” ‘Do not deceive one another.

Proverbs 6:16-19
16 There are six things the LORD hates,
seven that are detestable to him:

17 haughty eyes,
a lying tongue,
hands that shed innocent blood,

18 a heart that devises wicked schemes,
feet that are quick to rush into evil,

19 a false witness who pours out lies
and a man who stirs up dissension among brothers.

1. Some of God’s commandments regarding honesty is: -don’t testify falsely against a neighbor, do not steal, do not deceive or cheat one another, do not pass along false rumors, do not cooperate with evil people by lying on the witness stand, do not steal, do not deceive or cheat one another, do not be prideful or kill the innocent, do not plot evil or race to do wrong or sow discord in a family
2. Some situations that tempt me to want to lie is if I am afraid of the consequence or afraid of hurting others feelings. Oftentimes this could be a guise of wanting to be a nice person, but consequenty compromising my integrity